Human being learns very fast and starts making adjustments with the way he reacts and responds to this outer world. In this process he starts to build an inner world of himself. He does everything in his capacity to keep this inner world satisfied. This inner world i am talking about is the world filled with Fear, Desire, Lust, Passion, Urge, Cruelty and many other ramifications of the mind. All these identities are to be fed with their required inputs regularly. If a person forcibly makes any of them starve, they come out and dominate. They start giving him spasms, just like the person who stops taking drugs suddenly.
A trained mind can take these things easily and hence, a human being as intelligent he is, starts training his mind to keep up with the outer world and simultaneously with his inner world. He convinces his inner worldly requirements by giving them assurance of making available the required situation. He waits for it and then when it is time, he suddenly transforms from a normal social being to a very strange person, who is very different. A person who looks strange and foreign. A person who you cannot relate to.
It is strange but very true a fact that we are all having this problem but, in varied proportions. We have our wants for our own reasons but we dare to share it to our world outside. We store them deep in our subconscious.
Many of us have common traits which are innate to us, v.i Fear, Anxiety, Selfishness, Comparing attitude and sort of. These are very common and at times when the situation suddenly changes and goes out of hand we can observe these characters showing up. The person concerned desperately wants to hide this attitude of his, but, due to the sudden change in the situation, his unpreparedness shows.
These innate characters are those we should be concerned of when analyzing a personality and not the established social identity.
A tough job, but, some good research has been done in this area, wherein, one can ascertain a human beings innate character by following his gesture patterns and by combining them to arrive at a particular trait.
However, this is not perfected, since, people have also mastered to portray gestures. It will be difficult to analyse these professionals who have mastered the art of conning.
However cunning a person is, when he is pushed to his limit, he surely will display his original or shall we say, his innate behavior.
Lets take a simple case,
A person while driving meets with a simple accident. He first shouts at the other rider. But, once he realizes that the other is strong physically or he has more support, the language and behavior changes and he becomes submissive. He comes into the mode of compromise from the earlier mode of demand.
This happens to everyone with very little exception.
Then why do we do this. Why do we show aggressiveness on weaker and submissive people and why do we ourselves become submissive when the table turns?
Then why do we do this. Why do we show aggressiveness on weaker and submissive people and why do we ourselves become submissive when the table turns?
This case clearly shows that we act depending on the situation we are in and there is no fixed pattern.
Man is trying to understand everything outside and tries to make it suitable for his living, but, never puts his efforts in realizing the type of a person he is and try to change the way he perceives this world. This one transformation will make a sea change.
He will start perceiving this world very differently. He will be able to understand each situation by its merits and be more humble in handling it.
He will start perceiving this world very differently. He will be able to understand each situation by its merits and be more humble in handling it.
The requirement of the hour is to dwell deep into our mind and soul and try to cleanse ourselves. Train our minds to perceive this world from a positive perspective. The whole world will look beautiful. All this ugliness of pseudo mannerism will fade away giving way to Innocent Beauty.
